Why does menopause hurt so bad? I mean really? All it is is the natural shift in hormones as our menstruating life comes to an end and our 'second spring' emerges. It's a shift from taking care of 'them out there' to taking care of ourselves; shouldn't that be easier and more joyful? One late summer morning I got up with a bee in my bonnet on this issue and did a Facebook live to think it through. Click on the image below to watch the vid.
What I didn't go into, but will maybe get a bee in my bonnet about another day, is a lot of the pain is down to our culture not ...
The first chamber of menopause is The Void
The Void can be the trickiest phase, so uber self-kindness is the way forward.
The second chamber of menopause is Surrender
Time to fill your self-love tanks and Surrender.
The third chamber of menopause is Renewal
Tread softly in Renewal, for you tread on my dreams.
The fourth chamber of menopause is Vision
Stay slow and keep your energy close to you in Vision.
The fifth ...
Menstrual Medicine Circles for Menopause
Menstrual Medicine Circles are a relatively new process so this will explain
What they are
Who they're for
What the benefits are
And why they're so damn empowering!
Tessa Sanderson a fellow Menstrual Medicine Circle facilitator asks me all about it.
You can learn more about Menstrual Medicine Circles or read how the circles have made a difference to these women's lives.
One of the best gifts I gave myself during my sabbatical was to have Biodynamic Therapy in Menopause. As a process of healing and self-actualisation, menopause worked her magic on me in the Biodynamic sessions giving me access to my own bliss. I shared more of my therapy adventures with WellDoing and you can read it here.
I integrate Biodynamic therapy into Intuitive Bodywork sessions and you can find out about that here.
The final part of my Menopause Gap was to spend time with Shiatsu teacher Suzanne Yates in Itlay learning about the role of the Extraordinary Vessels in women's cycles. This article on the Wellmother blog reflects on how it supported my menopause process and shaped my ideas about how I could return to work in a sustainable way.
You can read the full article here
I integrate Shiatsu into Intuitive Bodywork and you can find out more about it here.
In this video I discuss ‘What is self-care?’ with Leora Leboff, my partner at Love Your Belly. We share why it matters so much for fertility, menstrual and menopause health and what we actually do in our own lives!
To watch the video click here or click on the image above. You can find more articles on other menstrual health topics too.
Menopause can be 50 shades of confusion, rage and bewilderment, but there is a map which can show you what you need to do at each phase. In this video I talk to women's health expert Rachel Eyre of The Healthy Womb about how to find our way through the emotional roller-coaster with the 5 chambers of menopause.
There are more posts on other ways to support yourself through menopause, have a look!
You're about to do a big presentation, your outfit is awesome and you're totally up for doing what you have to do to clinch the deal. Just before you step up a creeping feeling of heat rolls up your body and face, and whoosh, your confidence is floored.
Hot flushes are one of the most common menopause symptoms with 85% of women experiencing some form of temperature craziness in menopause. It varies from a warming up-drift to full-on sweats that require complete changes of clothes and/or bedclothes. Needless to say this can -
Menopause, with all it's disturbingly foggy symptoms, is a time you can feel like the carpet's been pulled from under your feet and you are totally lost. It really only starts to make sense when you discover that menopause is a transition, a liminal time when you are turning into a rooting-tooting, bad-ass, mighty powerful wise woman!
I present to you the map for the menopause the five phases that you will go through to get through to the promised land of renewed energy and focus.
Not yet peri-menopausal? You need to read this too! These five ...
Do you feel disempowered or that experiences from the past are stopping you from moving forward?
And what about the feminine? Is there something about it that just makes you feel weird?
Womb Love is a unique practice that will bring you in touch with your womb, inviting healing for past sexual and emotional trauma and bring you into your power. Combining
Self-care abdominal massage
you can relax and deeply let go, safely releasing what no longer serves you and embracing your essential nature. Is ...